There is a right time and a wrong time to "talk" to your boyfriend. Don't try and get his attention when he's watching TV, working on his car, or just enjoying his own space.
We really enjoy our personal time and space, so it's not a good idea to bother us during that time.

(even though it may look like absolutely nothing), we're BUSY .

If you want to talk to your boyfriend, you have to create the right environment to do so.

The first thing you need to do is get him open to discussion. You have to "plant the seed".

You can do this by "bribing" him...

Now that you have your boyfriend's attention, it's time to get down to business.

As much as guys won't admit it, we want to hear what you have to say because you did something that really bothered us.

But most of all, it's because our TRUST was taken advantage of.

But there are some things you need to keep in mind . Guys don't like to mess around...just tell us what you want to say and get to the point. Any unnecessary words will just annoy the heck out of us.

Tell your side of the story, and acknowledge what you did . But be sure to show vulnerability. If your boyfriend doesn't detect any sincerity or honesty in whatever you're saying, nothing else you have to say will matter. It will just be falling on deaf ears.

Use logic, not emotion, when you talk . Guys are very logical creatures, and there has to be a reason why something happened. Tell us you did "A" because of "B" and make sure it flows.

If we don't get an answer that makes sense, it will just make us angrier and more frustrated with you. We don't want to hear lame excuses why you hugged another guy at the bar. We just want to know that you're sorry and that it won't happen again.

A good discussion should end with the both of you being on the same page . And one of the easiest ways is to listen to his side of the story. Keep reading to find out why...

After you have said what you had to say, you should let your boyfriend talk.

At this point, if he feels you are genuinely sorry for what happened, he might be open to telling you his side of the story!

And listen to what he is telling you. This is a learning experience, so take mental notes on what he says. Observe what really got him mad so that you don't do the same thing in the future.

But you also have to look at the other side of the coin. If he is being overly sensitive about the whole situation, then you might actually have a GIRLFRIEND, not a boyfriend.

By the end of all this, you and your boyfriend either should have...

1) Made up

or

2) Still be fighting

If you're still fighting, then you need to revisit the "discussion" section because something was obviously missing in the communication process.

Remember, each of you has to show honesty and sincerity in everything you say. No time for stubbornness here. Deep down, you both know what needs to be said or done so just do it.

And if that doesn't work, you might need some additional strategies to get you through this.

I have put together some great resources and information that will be helpful for you to say sorry to your boyfriend and get back to good times.

Before I start discussing how to say sorry to your boyfriend, I want to point out a great resource for you. It's called The Magic Of Making Up .

The Magic Of Making Up is by Travis "T DUB" Jackson, and is full of strategies to win the heart of your significant other back.

This is perfect for this situation, because it covers how to "reconnect" with your boyfriend and get his trust back.

It doesn't matter if you cheated on him or just said something to insult him, T Dub's strategies will help win back your boyfriend no matter what happened.

T Dub's "Magic Second Chance Letter" will work wonders to get your boyfriend back. And the best part is that it's already written for you!

All you have to do is send it to your boyfriend!

Maybe you said something you just wish you could take back.

T Dub's "Clean Slate Method" can help you turn back the clock and take back what you said.

Or maybe you it was worse...you may have cheated on your boyfriend. Ouch!

The Magic Of Making Up will teach you how to use the "clean slate" technique in combination with 1 other secret technique and win your boyfriend's forgiveness. (there's even a Special Bonus Included)

And ladies, if you follow T Dub's advice in Chapter 6 of The Magic Of Making Up, your boyfriend will NOT be able to get you out of his mind - (It's just the way men are wired.)- He will start CALLING YOU again and you will be shocked at the complete transformation he makes!

These are just a few strategies that are covered in The Magic Of Making Up. It is a great resource, and if you think that any of the methods above can help you get back on your boyfriend's good side , you should check it out. Click here to check out The Magic Of Making Up .